I truly liked both you and believed we can easily
build something real together
. Unfortunately—or instead thank goodness, now that i believe about it—we never ever had gotten the opportunity because my personal
body weight had been a package breaker
. I am fat, sure, but you’re plenty worse.

1. 
   I’m not sure whether I should end up being upset or amused.
   
   I have handled numerous judgment about my body weight over the years, but having some guy exactly who appeared to be into me in the beginning merely to tell me that i am “a touch too excess fat for [him]” when things got genuine was actually a little mind-blowing. I understand we have all their unique private preferences and I’m not everyone’s cup of tea nevertheless appeared to love hanging out with me until I happened to be willing to
   take factors to the next level
   . WTF?
2. 
   You are shallow and sad.
   
   The truth that my body weight ended up being the singular bargain breaker in our potential commitment tells me pretty much everything i must learn about you. You are superficial and trivial and are usually happy to allow my personal physical appearance override the many other attributes you stated to enjoy about myself. Honestly, you are not the type of guy i wish to be with anyhow.
3. 
   You aren’t a god among males yourself.
   
   I won’t rest and declare that real destination actually vital but I appreciated your sense of humor along with your evident cleverness such that I becamen’t all those things annoyed that you are currentlyn’t my common sort literally. You are not precisely Brad Pitt and I find that lovely, however the simple fact that you might judge me personally therefore harshly when you’re perhaps not physically perfect either is kinda absurd.
4. 
   I love my human body
   so I never care and attention if you don’t.
   
   It required quite a long time to understand to love my human body just the way it’s. Can there be room for enhancement? Naturally. Would Now I need some other person telling myself the things I should fix, how when? Nope. Hating me actually inspiring, it really is self-defeating. Now I favor myself even though the whole world does not, so if you thought you’ll destroy my personal confidence, you couldn’t be much more incorrect.
5. 
   Beauty has nothing related to the number on a scale.
   
   I mightn’t be more beautiful at 120 weight than I am at 250. Equally the number on level doesn’t determine my self-worth, it generally does not decide how breathtaking I am. You may not notice that charm but there are numerous those who perform. Perhaps you’re just blind.
6. 
   These are which, my body weight doesn’t figure out my personal health both.
   
   Assuming that I’m poor, lazy, or gluttonous caused by my weight is actually absurd. I do not sit around eating McDonald’s on sofa each and every day plus the assumption that I as well as other fat people face is unjust and utterly silly. Everyone loves being active and giving my own body with healthful ingredients, not that I should have to justify that to you or other people.
7. 
   Any guy would-be happy to own myself.
   
   Really,
   I am a catch
   . I’m kind, smart, funny, and I also have a huge center. I’d end up being a delightful gf to a guy who was up to the duty to be a good sweetheart in my opinion reciprocally. Just because you will find my body weight to be a turn-off doesn’t mean almost every other guy will.
8. 
   You seriously missed out.
   
   Main point here, your close-minded and shallow lack of knowledge is costing you what might have been one of the best connections of your life. We could have developed one thing special, one thing real and good that filled your life with really love, happiness, and delight at each and every change. I guess you might never understand what you could have had—I’ll save yourself it for some guy that knows how-to value what he has got facing him.